Genderfluid Support

Anonymous asked:

Hi... I don't really know if I can identify as genderfluid. I haven't problem with pronouns, but sometimes I just want to erase my body and be only a human being. Without sex (but it's rare). I also like man clothes (I'm born female) and I want to buy more, but my mother doesn't approve. If I was just trans she wouldn't have no problem, but I don't think she understands that sometimes I like be more feminine and sometimes masculine. And I don't think I really understand that too, but I'm trying

Anonymous asked:

Coming out to my family as GF was pretty easy. They didn't really seem to have much reaction either way. But, I'm nervous about asking them to call me a different name. Part of it is because of my mother, who had a stroke, so it would be really hard for her to make that kind of change even if she wanted to. I'd be fine with her calling me by my birth-name under the circumstances, but then the rest of of them would have to do so around her so she won't get confused. Is it even worth asking them?

Anonymous asked:

I'm afab and I'd like to have a new name for my masculine days but I'm not sure how to tell my friends (I'm not out to my family)... I like my birth name, and it shortens to a gender neutral/male name, but I don't like the masculine nick name. It doesn't feel right. How do I tell my friends (especially my gf) that I want a new name for my boy days?

Anonymous asked:

I can never come out because my parents think gender queer is social political bullshit most of the time, and my sister thinks being genderfluid or genderflux are mental illnesses and I have a close cousin who basically thinks nb people are fake and lying and undeserving of respect and I'm very scared. I'm not in physical danger or danger of being kicked out but I know they would think it's a phase or that I'm less deserving of respect and I don't know what to do (I'm 16)

Anonymous asked:

I've been IDing as genderfluid for a long thing, but now I'm thinking my gender is something else entirely?? And idk what to do about it

Anonymous asked:

Howdy c: so about two months ago i finally feel comfortable enough with myself to identify as genderfluid, but for the last month or so I've felt pretty purely nonbinary (or agender, I'm not sure what the best word for it is.) I still have small fluctuations, but nothing lasts as long as it used to (they last only a few hours as opposed to a few days). I'm not really sure what this means? Or if its normal?

Anonymous asked:

ive identified as genderfluid for a while now, and I'm out to my family, and i know my gender changes, but i don't have a lot of male days, and im worried/thinking that i might just be a trans girl. is it normal to just not experience a gender for a while?

Anonymous asked:

I'm really struggleing right now cus when I first heart of the identity genderfluid I thought it fit, but after some time I identified more as a transmasc person and thought I was a transman for some time but now I'm feeling more like I'm drifting towards kinda a masculine neutral form of feeling and i don't know if I'm comfortable with calling me genderfluid (I don't even know if this is genderfluidity) and I already told some of my friend that I'm a boy and I'm just really lost...

Anonymous asked:

Hi yes, I identify as queer, is that weird?? Or like can I do that??

Anonymous asked:

I think I feel like I’m genderfluid and trans but I don’t feel any dysphoria at all, I’m afab and I feel like if I kept on living like a girl then I would be fine, I just wouldn’t be happy? Idk if tat makes sense like if someone refers to me as she then I don’t feel anything in particular but if someone refers to me as they I feel like it’s right, can I still call myself gender fluid and trans if I don’t have dysphoria? Would that make me cis?? I’m sorry I’m just really confused

Anonymous asked:

Idk if I feel like a certain gender or just want to express that way. It might be both. I know gender expression =/= gender. I feel like theyre sometimes connected. Idk if im actually the gender I feel or if its just gender expression. I rarely feel feminine (Im afab) and when I do I dont feel like a feminine girl. I feel more like a feminine guy. But when I feel masculine I dont feel like a guy. I want to dress more neutral when I feel that & also want to dress neutral when I feel like a girl

Anonymous asked:

I sent you an ask a while ago and you gave me some genders to look into and I think that cassgender fits me well except like I’m 100% sure I’m a lesbian because whenever I’m around a cute girl or something then I feel like a girl but in literally any other situation I think cassgender fits, is their a word for this???

Anonymous asked:

I’m really confused about my gender right now because like, no matter what label I use it feels wrong. It’s not like I feel agender either but when I try to label my gender I just feel.... me? I know that sounds weird but I’m really confused and I’ve tried a bunch of different labels and none of them ever feel right and I don’t know what to do